As many of you know I am having trouble with the Love of my life...in the past he has f'd up many times but not nearly as bad as what has happened most recently...My head is going in a million different directions do I stay or do I go?? My heart at this point is so confused...It's like my heart won't give up (i've never been a quitter) and my head won't either. I love him truely love him...and many don't even expierience that. Many never find love. I miss the man he was & I think it took this for him to realize that he wants to be with me...that he no longer will hurt me...that he will treat me the way I deserve to be treated.
My bestfriend thinks there should be no questions...she thinks I should just give up...she says she will not support me on this decision...
I was lost...why do I have to choose...and then Carmen told me this....
"Friends don't judge you... They listen and they try to understand and when they don't understand, they support you and walk hand in hand with you so when you fall they can help break that fall.... She'll have to learn to deal with who ever is in your life.. that's choice that only you can make.... no one can or should try and change matters of the heart...."
and I think that sums it all up.....
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I agree with Carmen on this one...a "friend" would not expect you to chose between your relationship with them and the one with the person you want to be with...They can only be there to catch you when you fall or to hold your bouqet at the wedding...Those should be the choices they are thinking about...
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